Love or Work

Do you have a dream? I want to ask every woman in Japan. Is it to get married, give birth to a baby and be housewife or work like a horse to realize a dream without guy? Whatis happiness for women?

When we were children, women definitely dreamed of becoming brides who is dressed in a pure white wedding dress like a princess. After that, women give birth to babies, be housewives, and lead uneventful lives as family. I have been told so many times by a lot of adult women. It is the most happiness for women to lead an ordinary life as woman!! What do you think about it?

In other side, the number of career women is increasing recently in Japan. A lot of women have a dream and work without guys. Although some career women have boyfriends, that is bound to end that is said: Which do you choose, ME or WORK?! Most women are tired of this set phrase. Some married women have a lot of trouble answering the question on this famous words in a world of women, too. The background of this phenomenon is very difficult and complicated, there is a close connection with society in Japan.

To begin with, the origin of this phenomenon is the sexual equality. A lot of women who have been housewives and retired into her shell called home until now advanced the world full of men and changed to fight with men equally. That gave Japanese women great change and increased choices of women's lives. Of course, that gave in charge of pouring tea a lot of dreams. Women are absorbed in job and increased strength more and more.

Then their life plan which women imaged in the old days collapse little by little. Women had finished worthwhile work in succession and have been bright career women and being have high ideal of man as their grown older with age. And they got pay pretty well, bought Chanel bags, Cartier jewelry as a reward for working hard, enjoy a luxurious hour a little after payday. Finally, when they come home, a their dear puppy run up to them who seems to be exhausted, apply a facial pack to all over their face and go to bed. Then they crossed their mind that it's too late. When they looked at theirselves looks like a facial pack monster in the mirror. At this point in time, marriageable age which they imagined is the past. That means accelerable late marriage. And this phenomenon connect with a dwindling birthrate. Some of them there are women which think that although I want to have a child, don't need a husband. Of course, because married women could work free and independent similarly single women, some women choose second life which women say goodbye to husband and raise a child their own.

Women spread width of life and could open a new field and bright future because appeared a new choice called "work" than before. In other words, it is possible that happiness for women is not only a pure white wedding dress but also a black suit.

In Japan, there are about 65 million women and there are about 3232 million women in this world. Every women has each different color, gain various experiences. No one the same people all over the world, every people seek happiness and have diverse dreams. Can you image yourself in the future? You yourself can make your bright future, of course depends on your effort. Therefore, I want to ask you once more again. Do you have a dream?